There are few things bothering me lately. Honesty is the first thing.
How do you define honesty? It is kind of broad, lets narrow it down to honesty in a relationship. This means those of you whom are in a relationship have the priority to comment, but those who are not can do so also.
Let me ask you guys this question, you are in a relationship with your partner, then one day, you meet someone else and you become good friends, eventually, that friendship turns into admiration and before you know it, you have fallen for them. Is it possible to be in love with two people at one time? Will you guys let your current girlfriend/boyfriend know about the other person? Are you breaching the trust your partner has given you? Are you being dishonest?
I know from a lame man's eye, all you are doing is wrong, but to justify your situation, it is about you end of the day, right? What kind of relationship is it when you are not happy being in it? Should you be honest and tell your current partner that, you might be in love with the new person in your life?
On the other hand, to be fair to the current partner, all they deserve is the truth, playing behind their back with another person is not good, better to put it out there for them before it gets too late. Even if your partner has been the most honest person and never have cheated on you and has 101% trust on you, all you can do is go out look for some other relationship? You are being a bitch aren't you?
In this case, I would blame the third person, as he/she is stupid enough to get tanggled in a relationship with someone who is already committed to someone else. Are you out of your mind?
Well, it depends on what he/she have told this "friend" that made these new person fall for them? Don't you have self control? What have you achieved from all of this? Do you think you can live happily with what you have done? Don't you feel a little bit of guilt? Do you even have feelings at all?
What do you guys think? Is it right or wrong?
The Accused :
The Current Partner :
The "New Lover" :
Who is to be blamed? Could you live with yourself in that situation?
Let me know...because I really don't know..
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Honesty?
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4 comments:
i'm no good preacher but personally i blame the one who fell in love with the 3rd person.
when you're in a relationship, you should control yourself (your feelings) when being/talking to someone else [the opposite sex; izar's case, same sex :))]. because anything could happen. eventhough it's stupid.
but i really do believe if they're still falling in love with other person, then they're not ready to be serious in a relationship. because if they do. perempuan cantik mana / nice mana pun they won't be falling in love...it should be that way as i think. plain fancy yes, could be accepted but hard + of course ada gaduh2 sket pasal jealousy.
i would blame the 3rd person if the person saja2 gatal wanna seduce the poor soul when you know he/she's already in a relationship. that's just shitty.
yes dela! i like the way you think, i believe it is the person who fell in love with the third person too! wat an ass kan? but what if they have been in a relationship for such a long time and this person still goes falling in love with other people? can we say dia macam love for the current partner has fade away?
ish, apa ni so deep topic all?
let's just minum and hv fun!
ahahah bitch Dela.. include my name laa?? hehehe...
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