Friday Bla Bla

Michael : I would like to dedicate "you're beautiful" by james blunt to the girl i have been seeing, regina.
DJ : Ok, imagine i am regina, what would u tell me when u bring me out on a dinner.
Michael : Give me a break, would u.
DJ : Ok, let Nat be the girl then. What would you say to her.
Nat : This steak is really good.
Michael : Where's the beef?
DJ'S : hahahaha

Second conversation.

Caller 1 : Does michael know this song is sung by james blunt to girl who already is in a relationship?
DJ : Yeah, probably he doesn't.
DJs and Caller : hahahahaha

Third conversation.

Michael : I do know about that song and that is why i listen to it everyday thinking about regina.
DJ : Oh michael, it is friday, cheer up!

Fourth conversation.

Regina : Hi, I am regina.
DJ : Hey Regina, you must be a hot girl to have guys going after you.
Regina : *giggle*
DJ : Ok, tell me how is Michael, Are you indeed seing someone?
Regina : Yes, I am seeing someone now. Michael is weird. I told him i listen to fly fm but didn't know he would call up and dedicate that song to me.
DJ : Weird? Hahahaha
Regina : Today is friday bla bla bla right?
DJ : Yes, tell us whats in your mind.
Regina : I just want to tell Michael stop trying too hard and don't expect to much from people.
DJ : So, Michael, not going to work out?
Regina : I dont know.

Moral of the story : don't fool yourself on a national radio. Now, michael, we all know you are never going to get Regina or any other girl after this because you are weird.

So you people out there, if you like someone, keep it low and don't tell the whole world until you know you have a bright chance at it. If not, shut the fuck up man.

Hahahahahahha. What a start for the day. For me,other listeners and the DJs, entertaining, for Regina, humiliating and for Michael, fucked up life he has to go through after this. Good Luck man sincerely. :))

Habeas Corpus

I am going, jolly good! ;)

Pissed. Totally..

It is not a very pleasant feeling when you do a work and it doesn't get any appreciation in return.

Let me tell you what has hapened to me. I helped this two people with their work. The best part, i felt so happy when both were very much surprisingly complimented my work. It was good. I spent few sleepless nights trying to figure out new idea and they keep on changing the fucking content and i keep on changing my idea. I had to redo some parts of the project all over again as there were no chance for me to change a little bit and magic happens.

The first project was done, they loved it, presented it and end of story.

The second one, which happens to be my company work is the one i had to work on day and night. I didn't get enough sleep the whole week. My eyeback has got worst! I feel feverish everyday but the work has to go on. I need to finish it up.

Every time i do, i make sure i don't do mistakes as my boss is particular to even one single spelling mistakes. I did and i did. Tuesday, i finished and showed him. He was imprssed. :)
But then, he said need to add little bit more. As dumb as i am, i didn't do an editable one. Probably out of frustration and the aim to finish it fast and get over it feeling. I couldnt take it. I had to redo everything back. :((

I took some time off, i went to puchong for a drink with the boys, but ended up only meeting mande as the rest were merely in sight. After dinner, i came back to the office and started doing my work again.Wednesday, i went to sunway so met up with others for a drink there, after that, came back to office to do my work. All these work starts at 9 am til 12am or 1 am. I am so damn fucking tired now. I can barely feel my finger typing this post.

Thursday night, around 9 pm. I finished my work and sent to my boss. He was indeed impressed with it. But he ask me to add more stuff. I said no, i need ot go back. He said little bit only. I said no!I need sleep. Good enough he said can continue today,which is friday!

The worst part is, my eyes were as red as it could be, it was 10 pm,i was leaving the office, dela called. She said got free passes to Getto heaven's 2nd anniversary. I said what the hell, a few mugs of beer would do justice for all the hard work. I went! :))

It was a nice night out with friends, drinks,music,friends and it was Iskandar's birthday as well! The crowd was fantastic i must say.

Then, i reached back home around 3am drained out. Had to get up at 7.30am to go to work. I reached to work today, and my eyes are still half closed. I didnt do anything in the morning, and afternoon we went out for lunch. It was the office lunch day. Just came back, still to tired to do my work and thought of blogging instead. hehehe...

Thats one hectic out of this world week! But i am lovin' it ;)

Bullshit I say!

It is rather funny why people get all emotional for simple, small things. I am NOT refering to anyone in particular but I want get things out of my mind.If you have an opinion, i respect that, all i ever did is give my opinion. Is that so hard to digest? Does it bother you that much to except other's opinion in a good way? Why even bother having people around if you can't handle simple stuff?

It's all about assumption and misunderstanding which occurs due to fickle minds. Or more to attention seeking. "Look at me I am this and I am that". End of the day, you know you gonna be un happy. Why do you even start? IT WAS JUST A FREAKIN OPINION.

Gosh, is it just me or people are getting caught up with their mind so easily these days?

Now, a piece of advise from the wise one, me! (hehehe, self praise is a disgrase! i know.. but i dont care.)

1. Do what you feel like doing. Fuck all of the others around you. Don't give a shit for what they have to say.

2. Reverse psychology is sooooooooo out of time. It doesn't work anymore.

3. People are getting more analatical of what others do and say around them. So, if you believe that you need friends around you, stop being a very-easily-touchy person. People hate that.

4. When something happens, don't talk about it. It is the past. Gone is gone. why dig your own grave?

5. Attention-seeking annoys even a little kid. So, if you want to be lower than a kid, go ahead.

6. I am an idiot? You fuckin hate my sight? I don't care.

7.It's the 21st Century, cooommmmeeeeee on babe...wake up!

8. When the going get tough, the tough gets going...but make sure it is for a good reason. You don't want to end up in a hospital.

9. Face your problems and try to solve it. Sitting put on one stand ain't gonna help you much.

10. Last but not least, THE ARE MORE THINGS IN LIFE TO ENJOY THAN SIT DOWN AND CRY!!! GET OUT THERE!!

Additional advice : There are millinos of people out there in the world. The world doesn't revolve around you, your family and people you are in love with. So, stop being a cry baby and get over it. I am kind of sick of it. And sucking up doesn't help either.

I am so happy I have this blog. The only way I can say what I want. :)

Ignored

It's hard to explain. I don't know how i feel anymore. The times when everything comes crashing down and you can do is sit back and watch. Iknow i am not very good with words. I know, i suck at confronting. So, what should i do? Enjoy the show? Let life take its course? Or should i direct it to where i want it to go? Direct myself out of insanity that covers every single step that i take? As dumb and utterly useless this post may sound, it makes all the sense in the world to me. My brain is cluttered.

I feel ignored, i feel left out. I feel I can only see the back now..

Everyone with their worries, i feel responsible. Is this out of love? or plain stupidity?

Stop you fool! Look at your path first, it is filled with thorns and poking stones. It is uneven. Do something about it, or you are going to hurt yourself really bad.

Wait a minute, you already have, but what? I need more, i need pain, suffering. Is that what i have in store for myself? Laughter and Happy moments are for others. I only deserve torture?

I am trying, it is just too hard. Trust me, i am not a fool. I am just an innocent young boy who needs a helping hand to be guided. Don't balme anyone, it is me,myself and I.

I know i deserve better, i know i do. But, where do I get it?

Friends? I doubt, True love? I don't have any, Family? Possibility 0%.

End of the day, you realise you got nothing to live anymore. You call this useless?

All the problems in the world could never counter the problems I have in my head.

People, stop ignoring as this may cause a life.

Feelings are delusional. Look for something solid.

Original? It might help but innovation is mother of all creativeness. Go with the flow, you will get there someday.

Clean your feet and start walking. But, this time clear the path, ignore the crowd, you STAND ALONE.

Culture Shock

Have you guys thought of what a culture shock means?

The term, culture shock, was introduced for the first time in 1958 to describe the anxiety produced when a person moves to a completely new environment. This term expresses the lack of direction, the feeling of not knowing what to do or how to do things in a new environment, and not knowing what is appropriate or inappropriate. The feeling of culture shock generally sets in after the first few weeks of coming to a new place.

We can describe culture shock as the physical and emotional discomfort one suffers when coming to live in another country or a place different from the place of origin. Often, the way that we lived before is not accepted as or considered as normal in the new place.

Culture shock has many stages. Each stage can be ongoing or appear only at certain times. The first stage is the incubation stage. In this first stage, the new arrival may feel euphoric and be pleased by all of the new things encountered. This time is called the "honeymoon" stage, as everything encountered is new and exciting.

Afterwards, the second stage presents itself. A person may encounter some difficult times and crises in daily life. For example, communication difficulties may occur such as not being understood. In this stage, there may be feelings of discontent, impatience, anger, sadness, and feeling incompetence. This happens when a person is trying to adapt to a new culture that is very different from the culture of origin. Transition between the old methods and those of the new country is a difficult process and takes time to complete. During the transition, there can be strong feelings of dissatisfaction.

The third stage is characterized by gaining some understanding of the new culture. A new feeling of pleasure and sense of humor may be experienced. One may start to feel a certain psychological balance. The new arrival may not feel as lost and starts to have a feeling of direction. The individual is more familiar with the environment and wants to belong. This initiates an evaluation of the old ways versus those of the new.

In the fourth stage, the person realizes that the new culture has good and bad things to offer. This stage can be one of double integration or triple integration depending on the number of cultures that the person has to process. This integration is accompanied by a more solid feeling of belonging. The person starts to define him/herself and establish goals for living.

The fifth stage is the stage that is called the "re-entry shock." This occurs when a return to the country of origin is made. One may find that things are no longer the same. For example, some of the newly acquired customs are not in use in the old culture.

These stages are present at different times and each person has their own way of reacting in the stages of culture shock. As a consequence, some stages will be longer and more difficult than others. Many factors contribute to the duration and effects of culture shock. For example, the individual's state of mental health, type of personality, previous experiences, socio-economic conditions, familiarity with the language, family and/or social support systems, and level of education.


Enjoy reading just to broaden your knowledge. :)

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